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		<title>Merry Christmas!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Dec 2025 05:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Choose your charities and give where you can</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2025 05:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Things happen in the heat of excitement</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2025 04:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>When your partner avoids you, you need to reassess</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Feb 2025 05:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Trust is key in ANY and EVERY relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2024 05:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[acrophobia]]></category>
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		<title>On Affairs</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Jul 2024 04:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Some people are ashamed of their vulnerability</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2024 05:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Avoidance doesn&#8217;t solve anything; you can&#8217;t run away from yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Sep 2023 04:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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