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		<title>Bad behaviour has consequences</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 05:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Insecurity sometimes comes across as bitchiness</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>You&#8217;ll have better success if you work together as a team</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[competition]]></category>
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		<title>Blended families take work to keep it as seamless as possible</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
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		<title>In a family, the amount of children should be agreed upon</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2025 04:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[conception&pregnancy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[target]]></category>
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		<title>Work hard, but make time for play</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jul 2024 04:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
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		<title>Without a guide book, the best parent is one who observes and cares</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jun 2024 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Be proud of your partner rather than competitive</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2024 04:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Be mindful of those around you, always</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2024 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Sometimes, everything seems to go wrong all at once</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2024 04:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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