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		<title>When someone calls out for help, give it</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2025 04:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>When past secrets surface, don&#8217;t let them derail you</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Oct 2023 04:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parental abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Passion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Suicide]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
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		<title>Most parents&#8217; m.o. is to protect their children</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Sep 2023 04:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[After an Affair]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[aggression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[guilt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healthy eating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menstruation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental instinct]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Protective Parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[school]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-doubt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[shame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>

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		<title>Be kind and give people the benefit of the doubt</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Sep 2023 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
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		<title>Close family help each other out</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Sep 2023 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[climax]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[erection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[obsessions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[obsessive behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pride]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[scholarship]]></category>
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		<title>There&#8217;s room in your life for your sister, your mom, your daughter and your wife</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Aug 2023 04:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[adoption]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Affairs]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[alcoholics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gender discrimination]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[negative]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[sexual affair]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tension]]></category>

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		<title>Gossip is ugly, especially within the family</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/gossip-is-ugly-especially-within-the-family/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Jul 2023 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[assault]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[judgemental]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menstruation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
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		<title>Choose how YOU want to live your life</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/choose-how-you-want-to-live-your-life/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/choose-how-you-want-to-live-your-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jul 2023 04:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[isolation]]></category>
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		<title>Marriage is a two-part partnership. If only one person is in, it won&#8217;t work</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Sep 2022 04:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[anger issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mixed race relationships]]></category>
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		<title>Guard your physical and mental health from toxicity</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2022 04:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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