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	<title>Ellie &#187; abuse</title>
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		<title>Emotional abuse is unacceptable &#8211; at EVERY age</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<title>Do everything you can so you know you&#8217;ve done your best</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 04:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bravery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crisis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[estrangement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[false accusations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[grandparent alienation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[struggle]]></category>
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		<title>Annual celebrations can get overwhelming</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[allergies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bystanders]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[child abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[proof]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suspicions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Thanksgiving]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[thoughtfulness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[traditions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[traitor]]></category>

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		<title>Everyone deals with grief differently &#8211; don&#8217;t judge</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-deals-with-grief-differently-dont-judge/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/everyone-deals-with-grief-differently-dont-judge/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2026 04:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[angry]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[strength]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[teamwork]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TikTok]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trauma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weakness]]></category>

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		<title>If a company won&#8217;t &#8220;fix&#8221; the problem, weigh your options</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/if-a-company-wont-fix-the-problem-weigh-your-options/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/if-a-company-wont-fix-the-problem-weigh-your-options/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Sep 2026 04:00:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[gift]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[verbal abuse]]></category>

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		<title>Stand up for yourself against ANY bully</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/stand-up-for-yourself-against-any-bully/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/stand-up-for-yourself-against-any-bully/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2026 04:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fight or flight]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[housework]]></category>
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		<title>No one OWNS anyone else. Unless married, everyone is fair game</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/no-one-owns-anyone-else-unless-married-everyone-is-fair-game/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2026 04:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[accountability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[complaint]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<title>Dogs should not be penned in all day</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/dogs-should-not-be-penned-in-all-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2026 04:00:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[accusations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[concentrate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dirty laundry]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[domestic violence]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[insult]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[OCD]]></category>
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		<title>Reconciliation may be possible but let the dust settle first</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2026 04:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
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		<title>Work obligations often trump fun</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2026 04:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
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