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	<title>Ellie &#187; abuse</title>
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		<title>People change; move on and find new people</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[boring]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[dismissive]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dull]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[heartbreak]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ignorance]]></category>
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		<title>Blended families need to work TOGETHER for harmony</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2026 04:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alienation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[horny]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[moving in]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-protection]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sexual pleasure]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tantrums]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[volunteer]]></category>

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		<title>Take care of YOU! Those who need you, need you healthy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advocate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[alopecia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[burn out]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consideration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[experience]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[faith]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ghosted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[incarceration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[innocence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[justice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[peace of mind]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[prison widow]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stability]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[target]]></category>
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		<title>We are not responsible for the behaviour of our adult family members</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ADD]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[cognitive decline]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[damage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drunk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[embarrassment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[exhaustion]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Red Flags]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secrecy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[work travel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>

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		<title>People behave strangely sometimes&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2026 04:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[child support]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[considerate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[domestic abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hair loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hormonal imbalance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hot flashes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[massage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[menopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[misinterpretation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[perimenopause]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[positivity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relaxation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suffering]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[supplements]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[symptoms]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[weight issues]]></category>

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		<title>When it gets overwhelming, spend some time in nature</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/when-it-gets-overwhelming-spend-some-time-in-nature/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2026 04:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Covid-19]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[crush]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[failing]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[online school]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[privacy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
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		<title>When it comes to your health, get professional medical advice</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/when-it-comes-to-your-health-get-professional-medical-advice/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/when-it-comes-to-your-health-get-professional-medical-advice/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[belittle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breast augmentation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breast reduction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breasts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confusion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[domestic violence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[intimate partner abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[irritating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[isolate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mastectomy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[opinions]]></category>
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		<title>Friendship is a two-way street; not a one-man show</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2026 04:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complainer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[daily drinking]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[drunk driver]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[entitlement]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[focus]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intervention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[narcissist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overwhelm]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[psychological abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[trust]]></category>
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		<title>Some people never get over their high school years</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anorexia]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consent]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dignity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[eating disorders]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[frustrated]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[hurt]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[online gaming]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[resolutions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[swearing]]></category>
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		<title>Life can get harder, trickier, tougher</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2026 05:00:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[aging parents]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[crisis]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional manipulation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[energy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gaslighting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[social issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
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