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		<title>Excuses, excuses &#8211; after awhile, they don&#8217;t hold their weight</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 04:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<title>Caregiving is a burn out job; take care of yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2025 05:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[annoyed]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[retreat]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
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		<title>Al-Anon can help families and partners of addicts</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/al-anon-can-help-families-and-partners-of-addicts/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Nov 2025 05:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[acceptance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Addictions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anger]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[bipolar disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[blame]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Blended Families]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[borderline personality disorder]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappointment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drug overdose]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grief]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
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		<title>Moms against motorcycles</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2025 04:00:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[mistakes]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parental control]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[special needs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[suicidal ideation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>
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		<title>Marriage doesn&#8217;t mean ONLY having similar interests</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/marriage-doesnt-mean-only-having-similar-interests/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2025 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[compatability]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[social media]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[worry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Youth]]></category>

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		<title>Learn to decipher between important and unimportant</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/learn-to-decipher-between-important-and-unimportant/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2025 04:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compromise]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family vacations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[holidays]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hysterical]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[narcissists]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[reconciliation]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[summer]]></category>
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		<title>Disrespect and rudeness is unacceptable at any age</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2024 04:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[code of conduct]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cultural differences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disappearance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dumped]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[ghosted]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
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		<title>Sudden Loss</title>
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		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/sudden-loss/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 May 2024 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[shock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>
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		<title>Sometimes, everything seems to go wrong all at once</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Apr 2024 04:00:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>There are two sides to every argument. Talk it through</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Mar 2024 04:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[break-up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Christmas]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[stranger danger]]></category>
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