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		<title>Helpful neighbours are wonderful until it becomes too familiar</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2026 04:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Only children have a tough time managing elderly parents alone</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 04:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Communal spaces should not be used for private dealings</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2026 04:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Milestones happen at different times for people; you&#8217;re allowed to celebrate yours</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2026 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Your children love you for who you are</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2026 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[approval]]></category>
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		<title>Think outside the box when dealing with children</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2026 04:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>Do everything you can so you know you&#8217;ve done your best</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2026 04:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Friends need each other &#8211; no matter where they live</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2026 04:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Annual celebrations can get overwhelming</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Friendship is a two-way street &#8211; or it&#8217;s not worth the effort</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2026 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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