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		<title>Other people&#8217;s family dynamics are not your problem</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2026 05:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abandonment]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[invitation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[resentment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[transparency]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[travel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Unhealthy Relationships]]></category>

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		<title>Location, location, location&#8230;.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2026 05:13:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ambition]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bragging]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[complain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[debt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disabilities]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity of spirit]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[location]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Loss]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[open-door policy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-centred]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unkind]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unsympathetic]]></category>

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		<title>Not everyone can teach what they know</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/not-everyone-can-teach-what-they-know/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/not-everyone-can-teach-what-they-know/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2026 05:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chaos]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dogs]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fertility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hobbies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[language]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[limitations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[organized]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregnancy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[regression]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[roommate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[schedule]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[twins]]></category>

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		<title>Step out of the line of fire</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2026 05:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anxiety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[autism]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compassion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[console]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[etiquette]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[executive functioning]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fighting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interrupt]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neurodiverse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overbearing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[perspective]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[same-sex relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[thoughtfulness]]></category>

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		<title>Don&#8217;t believe everything you hear</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/dont-believe-everything-you-hear/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2026 05:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cancer]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conclusions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[contention]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gossip]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Health Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Lying]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neighbours]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[opinions]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[renovations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rumours]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-centred]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[slander]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[truth]]></category>

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		<title>Everyone&#8217;s life takes a different path&#8230;.</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/everyones-life-takes-a-different-path/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/everyones-life-takes-a-different-path/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 05:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abortion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[celibacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chemistry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consequences]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disrespectful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healthy habits]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[intimacy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loss of a loved one]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mental health issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pregnancy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[rude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex therapy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Teenagers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[vaping]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Withholding Sex]]></category>

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		<title>Secrets are secrets for a reason</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/secrets-are-secrets-for-a-reason/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2026 05:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ADHD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[conversation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[drugs and alcohol]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[embarrassment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[etiquette]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[honesty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neurodiverse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[outing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[secrets]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[siblings]]></category>
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		<title>People are often impatient, agitated and rushed; step back</title>
		<link>https://ellieadvice.com/people-are-often-impatient-agitated-and-rushed-step-back/</link>
		<comments>https://ellieadvice.com/people-are-often-impatient-agitated-and-rushed-step-back/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2026 04:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[car accident]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compromise]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[concussion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confrontation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[expectations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gracious]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[kindness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[mind your business]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[priorities]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sadness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[selfish]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[thoughtfulness]]></category>
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		<title>Life experiences shape our likes and dislikes, fears and favourites</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2026 04:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Column]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[appreciation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[childhood trauma]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fears]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[generosity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[humility]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[humour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Money Issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[neighbour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parental support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pet problems]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[settle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[social awkwardness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[turn-off]]></category>

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		<title>When people start acting out of the ordinary, there&#8217;s usually something else going on</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2026 04:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cold]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consideration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cottage issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[distant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family vacations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[financial support]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Friendship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grandparenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In-laws]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[label]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[parenting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[rant]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[respect]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ungrateful]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[woke]]></category>
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