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		<title>Everyone grieves differently. Let the pain subside before making rash decisions</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Apr 2026 04:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[collateral damage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[consideration]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Death]]></category>
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		<title>It&#8217;s important to discuss bad experiences so they don&#8217;t happen again &#8211; to anyone</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2026 04:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abusive language]]></category>
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		<title>Take care of YOU! Those who need you, need you healthy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2026 04:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[advocate]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Bullying]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[feelings]]></category>
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		<title>If you&#8217;re not happy, make changes to your life</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
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		<title>We are not responsible for the behaviour of our adult family members</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Apr 2026 04:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ADD]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[anniversary]]></category>
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		<title>Concerned about strange behaviour? Confront!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 04:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>PDA is unattractive, especially when crass</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 04:00:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>If you can afford it, you should be able to live as you wish in your 90s</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2026 04:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[assisted living]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[dress code]]></category>
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		<title>&#8220;If music be the food of love, play on&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Apr 2026 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Get professional up-to-date diagnoses</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2026 04:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisi Tesher]]></dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
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